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    I've been with this girl for a long time. Lately, she's been ingoring me and I have no fucking idea what the fuck is going on. I decided to fucking ignore her as well, because she is being a complete bitch, and it seems she is fucking someone else, which she denies. Is this ignoring the right thing to do?

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    I'd try talking to ger and let her know how you feel. Tell her you don't like the way she is treating you and it needs to change. If it doesn't dump her. Just my opinion!

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    just kill her....

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    Ok, let me see if I have this straight. You have been dating a girl for a long time and all of a sudden one day she began ignoring you? May I ask how long you have been dating? It seems very suspicious that she would just walk away from you with no given reason. You ignoring her is only proving you can act in the manner that she is behaving. It's not bringing you back together. You need to find out what is going on by just asking her in a direct manner. If you have a lot of time and emotions invested in this person, you don't want to throw that away. You know something isn't right, it's up to you to try and find out what has happened. All you can do is give her the chance to explain, if she won't talk, then you really don't have much recourse. I will tell you that ignoring eachother is probably going to lead to even more pent up anger and bad feelings, see what you can find out. If you'd like to discuss this in a private setting, please feel free to pm me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vempyrik
    just kill her....
    You would you sick fuck

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gothickitty
    You would you sick fuck
    and then fuck her

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vempyrik
    and then fuck her
    OK How about I kill and then....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gothickitty
    OK How about I kill and then....
    and then STFU

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    I agree with Mirren.

    If she is important to you, ask her what is up...

    Some girls test people's claimed love, by doing stupid shit,
    or pushing you away, to see how you react. If you really love
    her deeply, like you say, you would maybe freak out, and keep
    crawling after her. If you ignore her as well, then she probably
    thinks you don't really care that much, and are willing to lose
    her, and are willing to leave. She may want someone more devoted
    than that.

    But still, she needs to be able to tell you what is going on.

    She might just be withdrawing, to go be with someone else.

    But if someone will not work with you, to make things good,
    then you are wasting your time. If you are willing to do what
    she wants, and give her what she wants, then she should
    not be ignoring you. She should be telling you what to do,
    or why she is mad, etc... If she cannot communicate,
    or she likes to play games, you are better off moving on...

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    Deathnight is right, my last realtionship I adored the girl and she was a sweet person, she had some serious issues and I hope she worked them out..I had mine too. One night I had a horrid dream, see I have an abilty to sense things on a very od level and often I will have a dream that will fore warn me about things anyhow I dramt she was seeing somone else...I woke up uspet and scare but there she was. Anyhow she started to become cold to me and one day she said " I don't love you anymore" before I knew it she was talking to somone else..that didn't work out and so she dated somone else after a few months she got amgaged.....

    point being no one, except you is worth the effort, that may sound jaded, but id she really loved you and cared for you she would tell you the complete truth and no one it seems especially in realtionships has the balls or the self worth to be honest, there is alwasy a hidden truth to these things, don't get yer boxers in bind. chalk it up to a bruised and battered heart some hard days ahead and tell her to take a hike if she can't respect you and you have put all that care and time and respect in...tell her to take a walk....becasue you respect yourself and your wortha dn if she can't then why is it worth the dragged out bullshit realtionships go through during this situation make sure you owe her nothing finatially and that its a clean professional break....your, honestley better of without her, not all is fair in love and war, and persoanlly I think that sucks, but you'll eventually you will meet someone worth tthe time and effort....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vempyrik
    and then STFU
    Die bitch DIE

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    Vempyrik
    and then STFU

    Gothickitty
    Die bitch DIE


    are you two in marriage?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Septic Flesh
    I've been with this girl for a long time. Lately, she's been ingoring me and I have no fucking idea what the fuck is going on. I decided to fucking ignore her as well, because she is being a complete bitch, and it seems she is fucking someone else, which she denies. Is this ignoring the right thing to do?
    She's fucking another guy..or girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OliX
    Vempyrik
    and then STFU

    Gothickitty
    Die bitch DIE


    are you two in marriage?

    ive oft wondered the same thing

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    Quote Originally Posted by SomethingSelfrighteous
    ive oft wondered the same thing
    I thought they were the same person? I dunno...theories abound it seems...all of em creepy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tequila Zaire
    I thought they were the same person? I dunno...theories abound it seems...all of em creepy.
    now my heads spinning more than usual...but yes, creepy indeed

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    READ ALL THE POST and the answeres will be more wierd then ya think....

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    but the truth is who cares?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CPRB
    but the truth is who cares?
    Indeed...it can be the boards lil "Unsolved Mystery" and part of the lore we tell new members around sacrifices to the beer gods.

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    Have to communicate... ignoring the problem won't make it go away or any better,
    been there - done that - woke up having my skull bashed in with an iron by a crazy pissed off bitch
    (and I don't use the word 'bitch' lightly or freely as some do about women) got the scars to prove it.

    If she is someone worth keeping, even if she has been fucking someone else, talk about it and work through it
    (and get tested. both of you)... if she's not worth it... then 'fly punkass fly'.

    After 20 some years of some fucked up relationships and some not so fucked up relationships,
    you gotta know when enough is enough and cut your losses or stick in there for the long haul and deal with the shit.



    That is all... nothing more to see here... move along now.

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