so...my firend wants to take me to a gaybar...

well, if you hjadnt of guessed, I told amy about the compliment my bff said about her and i havent heard fomr her in over a week althuogh she did feel it was cool to call my bff three times thje next day after talking to me so yeah....we split up.

anyways, in light of this new found singleness, my bff has decided shes gonna tyr to help me find a new significant other which i frankly dont want and wouild rather have a casual relationship instead or sex basd one even better being as come august itll be four years since ive had sex, not like it was good sex back then but thats neither here nor there.

so my friend has decided the best wya for to me to get some is to doll me up-which i am definately not opposed to at all because i love getting glammed up- and taking me to a gaybar.

I dunno exactly why but that just sounds like a bad idea to em fro some reason. i dunno.

Try and get someone with the same sexual orientation this time. Might make it easier :).

lol ill make a note of that. but i can assure you, nothing is ever as easy as it seems when it comes to me.

well you will defintely have to let me know, how this ends up for you?
is this the first time you are doing something like this?

kinda sorta not really. i've been to gay bars before for dragshows and just to have a few beers but not with friends who are trying to hook me up with people and never in makeup.

I just have a feeling im gonna end up striking out big time and will probably be hit on by peo[ple i dont wanna do anything with.

i mean, dont get me wrong, i like guys too but I just feel like its a waste of gas just to get some dick. if i wanted that, i coud just drive down to the adult theatre down the road from here.

Well, the one good thing about gay bars, or goth clubs, or any kind of "alternative" scene, is that the people there tend to accept people who have different kinds of personalities, different lifestyles, different sexual orientations, etc. Where if you date and socialize with "normal" people, they are going to be less understanding, and less tolerant of bisexuality, or gender issues, etc... So just think of it like that. It's a place to meet people that aren't going to be weirded out by the stuff you like to do. You may or may not meet people you like. But at least you won't be worrying about having to tell some totally straight girl that you also like guys, etc...

Go and [at least try to] have fun.
It's not bad to go outside your comfort zone every now and then...
plus, you have a friend that is there for moral support if things start going badly...
You will probably get hit on by lots of people, but isn't that the whole point? If you are not interested, then politely decline...
Good Luck!
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ditto to what deathknight said.

you got a point dk and et. i dunno. i might take her up on it.
if we had a goth bar still out here in the valley i'd be down ther eevyr ngiht if i could but the closest one they did have was the nile and now it's like some halfway home/church or some shit for tweeekrs. and i think area 51 was shut down too.

I may have to se eif there's a gay goth club. that'd be fun. i've always wondered about club amsterdam personally........

Malcolm, if you're more interested in girls than guys, than why a gay bar? If it's just to go and have fun that's one thing. But if it's to get you hooked up you already said that you're not interested in getting some dick right now. Are you thinking that you might be able to hook up with a bi-sexual woman there?

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Malcolm, if you're more interested in girls than guys, than why a gay bar? If it's just to go and have fun that's one thing. But if it's to get you hooked up you already said that you're not interested in getting some dick right now. Are you thinking that you might be able to hook up with a bi-sexual woman there?

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it's true. i enjoy women mroe than men. it wasnt my idea to go to one, it was my bff's idea.i think personally she just wants to go to a gaybar herself but meh, yeah. her idea not mine lol

Why not humour your friend, and just get glammed up, go out and have fun?

go for it. If it sucks, then go see Wolverine instead.

I told her i will. and yeah. i plan on seeing wolverine too once i get the money and the crowds die down. theres a few flicks i wanna see this eyar so far. wolverine and star-trek are at the top. g.i joe was until i saw how they looked and it was being done by michael bay.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q54LJ5RsqRw

I had one of my craziest hook ups in a gay club actually :)

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I had one of my craziest hook ups in a gay club actually :)

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REALLY?!?! What was the dude's name?:1orglaugh

Isn't "gay bar" two words? that sounds like a chocolate candy item.

Is that a Mr. Goodbar? No, it's a Mr. Gaybar.

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Isn't "gay bar" two words? that sounds like a chocolate candy item.

Is that a Mr. Goodbar? No, it's a Mr. Gaybar.

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why? are you an english teacher or something?
or is it some thing?
does it matter as long as you got what the topic was about?




not really.:thumb:

It matters actually.

At least to me.

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It matters actually.

At least to me.

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awwwww. and you know exactly how important your opinion is to me, Oli.:1orglaugh

Exactly :) That's why I never complained.

But truth to be told, from time to time it can get annoying to decipher almost every sentence you write. Reason is obvious :) I'm not so fluent in English language.

Take this however you want, I was just honest and I mentioned it because it was brought up. I wish people were criticizing me more, that way I would know on what to work to improve my self.

Back to topic.... Where can you buy those Gaybars? Sounds tasty :D

oh it's no biggie. I just think it's retarded for people to be anal about spelling is all

luckily i'm using a new browser than i used to use because i.e would freeze on me every couple of letters and just jamble jaw the fuck outta what i was saying.
opera's pretty good with keeping up with my typing speed (around 50 wpm)
but that's neither here nor there. so yeah it's all good, olix.

as for the gaybar question on where to find one...........I will look into it, sweety.
truth be told, I've never had to pay for a gaybar and that's mainly because most of the guys out here who aren't (snickers!) anal about fashion and pop think I look pretty tasty so they practically throw it at me lol. it's the other things i have a hard time finding lol

So, did you go?
Did you have fun?

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So, did you go?
Did you have fun?

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no, not yet.
truth be told, it was kind of a halfbaked idea she kinda threw out her butt. she wants to go to a goth type gay bar and I dont thinkthere are any out here. come to think ofit, i dont think there are any gothbars out here anymore period. plus she's been pretty busy with school and junk and me well, i've been pretty busy looking for a jo which sux cus there arent any out here. I don't wanna go to a bar if i can't pay my own way yaknow?

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