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Ok so one of my closest friends just got in a bad relationship. I say this because he's dated her before... about 3-4 times. And She's cheated on him... well about 6. I do not want him to get hurt like he has before. What should I do? I know I should express how I feel towards him... This relationship has failed a lot... and I don't want him to end up hurting like he has before. :(
Actually, killing her is most likely the only way. I wish I was kidding.
leave them be... if you try to "help" him you'll just get thing worse between you and your friend.
once he will learn (hopefully, if not he's a idiot)
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If he is dead-set on being with her, maybe you can suggest this:
If he did not trust her before, and she was cheating, and lying,
and now she claims she has changed. he should ask her to start
being honest, and sharing her life and feelings. Get him to ask
her to start being comfortable about telling him if she thinks
another guy is cute, if she kissed someone, etc... If she can get
used to telling him the truth about what she is up to, then
maybe he won't get played for a fool again. I think it is at
least fair for her to give him the heads up. She should at
least warn him before she cheats, so he can leave, if she
is feeling like she wants to cheat with someone else...
I tried that with my ex, she said that would take the point out of cheating on me. Its not that they like them better, per sey, its that theyre naturally evil.
Im thinking that you MIGHT want to avoid getting involved in that conflict, because it would end in them hating you, for trying to interfere.
Him, because you were saying stuff about her he didnt like, or was in denial about.
Her, because you were badmouthing her, even if it is the truth and she deserves it.
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