love is shit sometimes

have any of you been with somebody that you love so much
for a long time but things start to suck really bad
my wife decied to bad mouth me about my job at the strip club
she saying that im cheating on her every girl that works their
everybody knows im with her and she fails to mention
what she does when shes in their with other girls i love her so much
she has hurting me latoly i dont know what to do me make up
and fight again its so stupid right nowtalk to all of you later
your friend vamp.
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.................... all you can be is honest........ if you're not cheating on her then you're doing all right............ other than that, don't know what to tell you

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Originally Posted by hewhoisagod

.................... all you can be is honest........ if you're not cheating on her then you're doing all right............ other than that, don't know what to tell you

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Agreed.. the truth will set you free brother.

Sometimes guilty parties divert attention from their own indiscretions by accusing their partners of those same indiscretions. Just something to consider.

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Originally Posted by curiositykilledthecat

Sometimes guilty parties divert attention from their own indiscretions by accusing their partners of those same indiscretions. Just something to consider.

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yep

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Originally Posted by curiositykilledthecat

Sometimes guilty parties divert attention from their own indiscretions by accusing their partners of those same indiscretions. Just something to consider.

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you tok word from my mouth....

but I still have something to add.... If ou love her... and she loves you.... then... just chill, let time cure your missunderstandings.... and how they said... be honest, it's main factor for relationtip to succes...

yeah it is

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Originally Posted by vamp1123

have any of you been with somebody that you love so much
for a long time but things start to suck really bad
my wife decied to bad mouth me about my job at the strip club
she saying that im cheating on her every girl that works their
everybody knows im with her and she fails to mention
what she does when shes in their with other girls i love her so much
she has hurting me latoly i dont know what to do me make up
and fight again its so stupid right nowtalk to all of you later
your friend vamp.
:confused:

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It sucks when your spouce no longer trusts you anymore. You can be more faithful than the pope and still a peron thinks your cheating. WtF is going on here?? Seems like trust no longer applies here anymore.

If I were you, I would clear up that trust issue right away. Tell her you will do whatever she needs, to clear up her lack of trust. If she wants to question all the girls there, let her. If she wants to come there with you, and keep an eye on you, then let her. Let her do whatever she wants to do, to get her to feel like she knows the truth. And then tell her to shut the fuck up, or move on. Tell her you will not live that way. Either she trusts you, or not. Sometimes people can be untrusting, because they have had other people cheat on them. But you have to deal with the problem. Otherwise it will make the relationship turn sour. She may be jealous because she really does love you. But still, you have to deal with this problem... It's obviously bothering her, and bothering you. So get it fixed. Go take a lie detector test or something...

thank you for writing me back things are upand down right now with her
but we are working things out

let me get this right- you work at the strip club and you're NOT taggin some trim there???
as per your thread title- Love is shit all the time!!!!
I know its a bit juvenile but fuck it- if she thinks you are- just fuckin indulge!!!
but
oh yeah-
be honest!!!!!

Love is made to make us suffer. To fill us with Sorrow, wrack us with pain and leave us in utter humiliation. That is what makes it grand.