think Im single again

I have a feeling my girlfriend has either or is about to dump me and hasnt told me yet.

she went offline when I came on. she hasnt answered her phone all night and when i tryed calling back, it was busy.

the other day one of her friends was over who has been trying real hard to get in her pants and wowed her with how quick he got the baby to go to sleep and then he impressed tristan with some magic tricks and even offered her a bike ride.

and another one of her friends was iming her all night too. I think it's the dad of her daughter but she doesnt wanna tell me. she told me first it was her brother and then her friend and then her "adopted " brother.

IM really not in a good place right now. So it may be a while before i come back on-not that yall will probably miss me cus i think i've annoyed all of yall. anyways, thought i'd let you know.

what the fuck are they.... 10......


it's cool,dude...you'll be missed....you stirred the place up in just the right way! :thumb: .......

Hope it works out man...you were not annoying in the least. You'll be missed.

Hope everything's going okay. I hate drama in any shape, fasion, or form in my life, so I can feel for you. Lots of things went down before my wedding day. Hust when you thought you could depend on people to be there for you, they're causing destruction any way that they know how.

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Originally Posted by cheinara wraithwalker

Hust when you thought you could depend on people to be there for you, they're causing destruction any way that they know how.

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hell fuckin' yea....i've had one feincee(still haven't got over) and one very serious girlfriend..bucuse of people getting in there heads....

in both ,we were basically torn apart.....

that,too me were very nice,but hated me for there own dulisionsnal reasons.....


i'm actually still really hoping me and the xfeincee will meet/marry again..........



(i reall can't type well in this state, :cool: )

sad news dude... hope things work out for ya.

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Originally Posted by malcolm

I have a feeling my girlfriend has either or is about to dump me and hasnt told me yet.

she went offline when I came on. she hasnt answered her phone all night and when i tryed calling back, it was busy.

the other day one of her friends was over who has been trying real hard to get in her pants and wowed her with how quick he got the baby to go to sleep and then he impressed tristan with some magic tricks and even offered her a bike ride.

and another one of her friends was iming her all night too. I think it's the dad of her daughter but she doesnt wanna tell me. she told me first it was her brother and then her friend and then her "adopted " brother.

IM really not in a good place right now. So it may be a while before i come back on-not that yall will probably miss me cus i think i've annoyed all of yall. anyways, thought i'd let you know.

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Hell with her! Get another girl!! The world is full of them!

Sorry to hear about that man... people suck.

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Originally Posted by MistressJennifer

Hell with her! Get another girl!! The world is full of them!

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:thumb: What Jennifer said.

im sorry if this insults you but she sounds like a compulsive liar if you ask me brother, friend, adopted brother

I agree...

Fuck it...

Talk to her.

Ask her if there is a problem.

Ask her if there is anything to do to fix it.

Fucking COMMUNICATE.

I can't stand hearing all this sneaky lying drama bullshit.
If she can't be honest about how she's feeling, then fuck her.

Are you happy?
Is she happy?
If you aren't both happy, then you shouldn't be together.
If you are both happy, stop worrying so much...

One problem is that people tend to get in relationships, even when they
are still fucked up an unhappy. So that makes the other person unhappy.
And eventually they leave, because they don't want to be with someone
who is all fucked up. So my advice is to always make sure you have your
life together, and make sure you are happy with your life, even if it is
not perfect. Then go look for a relationship. Because if you are miserable
about your past, your family, your job, or your future, then you will make
the other person unhappy too. Get your shit together, and then the relationship
stuff will fall into place naturally.

well, i really feel like a jackass now. i called her up today. it was a ll a huge misunderstanding and because I have had so mnay bad relationships (all so far-over thirty to count) I automatically got paranoid and thought she was pulling the old "avoid you before the dreaded we need to talk" technique.
but im back. we're fine. sorry if i come across as kind of a bitch form time to time. I just hate being alone and the thought of it really drags me into a nasty place.

glad to hear things worked out man. now you can throw on a pair of comfortable dickies, drink some blood (with hotsauce of course) and read some savage dragon. :beermug:

See?

Just ask...

lol yeh. im an idiot and damn drew! you got me piegged. lol whats funyn is I just bought a bottle of tobasco garlic...it's fucking bomb on chips!

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Originally Posted by malcolm

well, i really feel like a jackass now. i called her up today. it was a ll a huge misunderstanding and because I have had so mnay bad relationships (all so far-over thirty to count) I automatically got paranoid and thought she was pulling the old "avoid you before the dreaded we need to talk" technique.
but im back. we're fine. sorry if i come across as kind of a bitch form time to time. I just hate being alone and the thought of it really drags me into a nasty place.

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It's all good, brother. People are just fucked up sometimes. Still, better to have had 30 bad relationships than no relationships at all. I've had two in my entire life (because I'm just that much of a twisted freak, jk ;]) One was with a manipualtive bitch, and the other was with a chick who still wasn't over her last bf and ended up avoiding me---so I feel your pain, but after a while things work themselves out... it's the nature of the universe (no one give me any bullshit about karma) Have a good time while you can, eventually you'll be 40.

Bad :thumb: Mojo

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Originally Posted by malcolm

well, i really feel like a jackass now. i called her up today. it was a ll a huge misunderstanding and because I have had so mnay bad relationships (all so far-over thirty to count) I automatically got paranoid and thought she was pulling the old "avoid you before the dreaded we need to talk" technique.
but im back. we're fine. sorry if i come across as kind of a bitch form time to time. I just hate being alone and the thought of it really drags me into a nasty place.

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I'm glad everything worked out for you ....
I'm paranoid too...it's easy to do, specially if you've been burnt before
good luck

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well, i really feel like a jackass now. i called her up today. it was a ll a huge misunderstanding and because I have had so mnay bad relationships (all so far-over thirty to count) I automatically got paranoid and thought she was pulling the old "avoid you before the dreaded we need to talk" technique.
but im back. we're fine. sorry if i come across as kind of a bitch form time to time. I just hate being alone and the thought of it really drags me into a nasty place.

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My biggest fear is being alone.

Hate to say it(IE write off your relationship!) BUT listen to the ladies, they are so right! If someone doesn't want to know, don't degrade yourself by waiting for crumbs from the table. "They" will then really go to town because they can!
:(

I hear ya darkness. but my luck with th eladies is below par. Im a geek. i read comic books, i collect action figures, i will leterally spend an entire evening watching zombie or porn flicks and call it a good evening and on top of that i have a walk like jason vorhese (I have a limp-always havethe box falling on my foot has brough it out more) And im built like a bouncer at some strip club.

I actually like thisd girl alot. she's gorgeous, she's sweet to me and she makes me feel attractive (which I have been told innumerous times i am not)

I dunno. thanx for the advice guiys and gals. IM a glutton for punishment.

Even the ugliest guy can seem very attractive if he has confidence.

That's why it is not wise to act like you care so much if she might leave,
and acting all paranoid, etc...

Just be straight up, and ask the important questions.
Tell her to let you know if there is ever a problem.

I intend to. I have always been honest about that. there are a lot of things i'd like to say to her but it is too early to say them and she's saaid some things that are a little too eary to say as well.....i.e: she could look at me for the rest of her life. etc. etc. So im trying to pace myself but it's hard.

Never look for love, it finds you when you least expect it. Until then.. enjoy the single life, while you still can.

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enjoy the single life, while you still can.

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words of wisdow. my gf of 4 yrs finally moved in last month. since then it seems like a constant stream of the same comments "are you really going to eat that after it fell on the floor?" .... "can you not scratch your crotch while you're cooking our dinner." .... "do you really need to look at that much porn?". what the fuck eva. :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by drewblood

words of wisdow. my gf of 4 yrs finally moved in last month. since then it seems like a constant stream of the same comments "are you really going to eat that after it fell on the floor?" .... "can you not scratch your crotch while you're cooking our dinner." .... "do you really need to look at that much porn?". what the fuck eva. :rolleyes:

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