Do you have a live journal? Is it friends only? What's your name LJ? Do you have journal's on any other sites?
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Do you have a live journal? Is it friends only? What's your name LJ? Do you have journal's on any other sites?
i cant post links but a link is in my profile..
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Doh, Here it is.
http://www.livejournal.com/users/novabrightstar/
BrightStar-
Your life sounds pretty rough, dear. It seems to me your parents are really bringing you down. Have you considered moving out and away?
-Nathan
I have tried , even contacting the army, navy, air force, and job core.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nautilus
they didnt get back to me until I didnt have a way to meet at their base anymore.
If I had a friend that would let me room with them, I could get a job and pay them back. I would also do the cooking, and help with the cleaning.
I would prefer a female room mate, whether I dated them or not, since I have had many bad types of experiences with males in that way.
BrightStar: Maybe try these: www.roommateclick.com/, www.roommates.com/, www.roommateaccess.com/
If you're willing to go all the way to Washington, you can sleep on my couch if you want! :)
-Nathan
Tried those also. Same progress.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nautilus
If you can pick me up, Ill pay you back after I get a job.
Im ready to go almost anywhere to get away from my family, and out of this state as well.
Quote:
Originally Posted by BrightStar
Well that's a first...they tend to go out of their way to accomodate anyone who wishes to join. Hell you can grab a cab to a recruting station and they'll take it from there.
However...one would have wonder if having someone to blame for ones ills is more attractive then actually conqouring them.
Well, I called, and they mentioned all this stuff about how they would get back to Me. They didnt get back to me for month. I have a friend who is a recruiter, and he said that I really should wait and also think it over, no matter what the situation, etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tequila Zaire
Given all you've said about your family and living situation...what on earth is their to think over?Quote:
Originally Posted by BrightStar
It's like being on fire and turning down water cause it's dirty. Military life is not easy...but from the way YOU describe things...you'll at least be treated better.
For some reason, that analogy sort of reminds Me of The Kids In The Hall.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tequila Zaire
Thats what I said. He said to wait until I am 20, since that is a few months away, and then join if I am sure by then.
Still though, even though armed forces may be a way out, that is a next to last resort.Quote:
Originally Posted by BrightStar
My other friend, Jason, who joined said I should avoid joining, because of what they did to him.
He had signed up for a certain time, and then had to serve even more time, because they kept extending and renewing his contract,etc.
I have not Visited him recently , but I am glad he returned from Iraq. :thumb:
I have a livejournal my nickname over there is obvious publicharakiri, yes it is friends only cause there are a lot of people out there who I don't give a shit about and who are just only interested in my pictures or something. or having me in there lists. I already have like 600 friends on my list. I think I need to clean it up some time. hmm well I update my livejournal almost everytday. im really livejournal addicted ghehe
-celeste-
mine is http://www.livejournal.com/users/thechriswashere/ but im not that interesting, so i wouldnt waste time there
toodles
the chris
http://www.livejournal.com/users/sexy_kittykat/ here's my link
But its friends only so if you wanna read, not recommended, Ill have to add you
myne is friends only too
i am a addict tooQuote:
Originally Posted by publicharakiri
you can find me posting from time to time on mine... pretty much updates on new shoots or publications.Find me at: genesislavey
I think mine is friedns only but I have not bee there in a while....
Dude, you are 20 years old. If you do not want to live where you are, grow some balls and move out. Seriously, people overcome their situations on a daily basis. I moved out when I was 15 with NOWHERE to go, and I turned out survived. Don't like living off your family? Move out. Simple as that.Quote:
Originally Posted by BrightStar
Listen to the lady...she speaks wisdom and truth.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jozie
So many people are going friends only the purpose of it seems to be getting lost. What's the point of writing in an online journal for "friends"...makes it harder to find interesting people on that thing. For every good journal I find their are 10o others that just drone on and on about how their "family sucks" or lame attempts to one up Penthouse Letters...it's losing it's unique qualities that made it worthwhile.
Well, you are probably braver in that respect, and know more of what to do.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jozie
I forgot how to even take a bus, other than to hand somebody some money and end up somewhere.
I would have almost no clue where to go or what to do.
It's so obvious he feels helpless. These people have led him to believe he can't do anything on his own. This isn't true BrightStar, you can succeed but it's not going to get through your head overnight. They didn't fuck up your esteem overnight, that takes time, just as feeling better will. I wish you much luck, abuse is just fucked up, on any level. It's easy to talk until you been there, everything isn't cut n' dried, though people try to tell themselves it is. I didn't read your journal but it's been obvious there are issues. Again, I hope you find strength to make the proper decisions and find some contentment in your life.
As Do I. :thumb: :D :hearts:Quote:
Originally Posted by Mirren
Thank You.
BrightStar-
My car can barely make it to the bank, Florida is out of the question! I hope you find a different option than the military. I think Bush might get reelected and you'd end up in Iran without a head! But I understand work can be really hard to find there. Isn't minimum wage still $5.15 in Florida!? Good luck to you!
-Nathan