Originally Posted by Donald Rilea
Well, Olix, I'm a Yank, more or less, but there are times that I get about as tired of a lot of the ultra-nationalistic shit some of my fellow Americans choose to absorb and spout off on a regular basis, as you may have been of some of the stuff you were getting from Pale TV, or maybe even Belgrade TV during much of the '90's.
I didn't lost anyone in my family during the war so I guess that played a roll for me in not being nationalistic.
I don't know, as I wasn't there, and not in your place.
Was thinking about this a bit this evening, and it seems to me that the big problem with nationalism in its many forms and flavours is that, if taken too far, it simply becomes yet another great excuse to indulge oneself in just about any kind of bad behaviour you could care to name, and more.
Unfortunately ou can find excuse for everything. Specialy in holly books as proven untill now.
Also, and I think this is especially true of ultra-nationalism, the kind of thinking and behaviour displayed by at least some ultra-nationalists seems to me to be rooted in a kind of insecure arrogance about oneself, other people and the world around us.
It's more a factor of education and parenting. Parents play a big roll in this. And so long no one has moved a finger on this matter. Hatered is not a option.
On one hand, everything that the individual's group does is pure gold, even if some of its motives and actions are really pure shit.
But, if anyone, whether it be an outsider or another member of the group who doesn't feel the same way as the individual ultra-nationalist does points that out, the defensive impulse to attack comes right up and out on the observer.
To me, and mind you, I am ignorant of a lot of the various achievements and failures of the vast majority of human groups of all sorts.
But, and am only generally speaking here, I think it's safe to say that, for the most part, most people one finds within any human group tend to be fairly average as far as moral character and intellectual and other abilities go.
They generally mean well enough, most of the time, try their best to follow the general rules of the given culture, sub-culture and society they live in, and make what contributions they can to their cultures with whatever resources and abilities available to them.
They can also be lazy, unwashed, loudmouthed, rude, petty and all of the other negative human qualities of which one could think.
That's part of being human, I think, and applies not only to the vast majority of average folks in any given human group, but also to those who have either outstandingly high or low characters and abilities as well.
People are a funny, often contrary, mix of the best and worst qualities of our species, as well as the greater family of animals of which we are a part, and the variety of mixes of those qualities, both in individuals and groups, is astonishing and incredible to behold.
Individual is one thing though. A group is another thing. More complex and heavier to manipulate. But there are political sciences who really want's to make a change :)
It seems to me that the more one looks at any given individual or group, the more variety of character, thought and opinion one can find in him, her or it.
Mind you, I don't always keep this in mind, though I should, when looking at the actions of a particular individual or group.
There are times I can be as intellectually lazy, biased and just plain nasty as the next person, and, when I am, I think it says more about me than it does the people against whom I'm expressing my opinions and biases.
So, it's my responsibility to make sure that I don't let myself indulge in that kind of thought or behaviour too much.
Sometimes, I succeed. Other times, I fail.
But, either way, I know that it's my responsibility to try and understand where the other person's coming from, and at least try and see, even if just for a second or two, why and how they feel the way they do.
Those are good qualities.
If I don't, that's my failure.
I can't and don't expect everyone else in the world to try this.
Some people, for whatever reasons of their own, either can't or won't be able to do it, and I think it's silly to expect everyone in the whole world to think and act alike, anyway.
That's the big problem with authoritarian and totalitarian ideologies, in my opinion.
They expect everyone, whether believers in them or not, to think, act and look alike, like so many mufflers off of an auto assembly line, or sausages from a meat-packer's, and, in the end, because, even the most devout believers in any given religion or other ideology have little quirks and flaws of their own, it never really quite works the way that's expected.
Because every person is unique. I experienced both sides of this.
Besides, any sort of ghetto, where everyone is supposed to think, look and act the same way, and to hold the same opinions, gets to be boring after a while.
But it's a good life school :P As well as military.
Too much self-congratulation and condemnation of others, as well as just plain hearing the same old voices and seeing the same old faces, day in, day out, and every day of the blessed week, month and year, are bound to get rather old and tired after a while, I think.
Variety, to use an often over-used saying, is the spice of life, whether it's with food, people, opinions, what have you.
There should always be room for the familiar, sure, and sometimes different people and different opinions from one's own can be pretty unpleasant to run into.
That's part of being human too, I think.
Not everything in life is bound to be pleasant, nor can it be.
But, sealing oneself off from the rest of the world in a kind of cage, whether it's a room, house, neighbourhood, region or nation has its drawbacks, too, and, I think, those drawbacks are worse than any found in dealing with different kinds of people, even if they are unpleasant at times.
But, that's just my opinion, and I've gone on far too long about this as it is.
Thanks for hearing from you on this, Olix.
Nevermind. Thank you for taking your time to answer me on this matter. Respect.