Kicked when you're sick?

So: The changes in weather always tend to cause me some fairly painful ear infections. A female "friend" had wanted to take me to a play and then karaoke. I messaged the specifics of how it would be slightly different. I occasionally will need help with balance and cannot hear well. She acted all caring and said it was ok.

I took a shower. It takes me additional time to get ready when I'm not 100%. She arrives at 10 til 8. I get out within 10 minutes. We arrive at the show at about 8:05. It started at 8.

Suddenly: We had to be there 8. Ok. I went through effort of getting ready. A few drinks tends to quell the pain. Karaoke starts in an hour.

I am met with anger, Very subtle. "I told my friends to go this show" "I'm going home". I was essentially blamed for being ill when I told her it was not going to be the most fluid of nights. The disrespect and inconsideration I felt was stunning.

Ever have this happen? I tend to wonder wtf is wrong with some people.

On a happy note: I received a message from a really great female friend. We're gonna go to The Raveonettes and chill tomorrow. She is a kindred spirit and never judges me for my quirks.

Why do people act this way? I can be harsh when I feel fucked with. If you know someone is ill .... you agree to accomodate them ... I think it's only proper that you show some fucking respect if things aren't perfect.

Fuck'n Humans (well most anyways)

I'm happy now that I got the message though :1orglaugh :thumb: Karma.

OEC

wow. what a selfish bitch...

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Originally Posted by VoltaireBlue

wow. what a selfish bitch...

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yeah. Now I'm being babbled about on a "social networking" site:1orglaugh I just can't even get angry anymore. I was never even told 8PM was some sort of threshold. The community of jerkoffs is being informed that OEC must take some of the blame. Good thing I didn't bring my friend in a wheelchair. Could have taken us 10 extra minutes. This is just some fucking local improv group! haha I just don't understand what's going on anymore. People must be really fucking bored. I can't wait to see my friend tomorrow. We don't even have to speak. She's so awesome :thumb:

OEC

Some people love making mountains out of molehills.

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Originally Posted by Bikerpunk

Some people love making mountains out of molehills.

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yeah no doubt. More energy for me tonight now. Off to Prince's venue to see The Raveonettes with a waaaaaaay cooler chick (ever wonder who the fucking chumps are who enabled that audacious drama shit though?) Bein' single is weird regardless of gender I s'pose.:1orglaugh :thumb:

OEC

Man, if being 5 minutes late was grounds for drama with most of the people in my life, I would be a lonely outcast for sure. I cannot STAND that sort of crap. Flexibility is an underrated virtue, and it sounds like that chick doesn't have an ounce of it.

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Man, if being 5 minutes late was grounds for drama with most of the people in my life, I would be a lonely outcast for sure. I cannot STAND that sort of crap. Flexibility is an underrated virtue, and it sounds like that chick doesn't have an ounce of it.

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I can't even remember anything quite like it happening. I'm used to just going with the flow. If one thing doesn't work out, you just move on to the next club/event, etc. Just some self-absorbed ninny. Karma tends to take care of such matters. Going out should be about being with friends imo.

OEC