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    Hey there, Brightstar asked if anyone knew a good dating site for Gothic etc. sorts of folks. I suspect he is not the only one curious about it, so I'd be interested to hear what those of you looking think of this site. It is free to sign up and just take a general look around, so let me know what your impressions are.

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    Cool, Thanks Amelia.

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    Do you know of any free sites though?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BrightStar
    Do you know of any free sites though?
    This site is free to sign up. I think you just pay for extra features. What has your experience been with it so far?

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmeliaG
    This site is free to sign up. I think you just pay for extra features. What has your experience been with it so far?
    It seems to have a lot of really cool features, but I dont really like the layout of the site, the way it is designed, and most of the other stuff about that site.

    Thanks for recommending it though Amelia. I appreciate your going through the effort for that.

    (On a side note: Glad you dont seem so mad at me anymore )

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    http://www.facethejury.com .. not exactly a goth-only site, but I've met lots of nice people there

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    Quote Originally Posted by postcoital
    http://www.facethejury.com .. not exactly a goth-only site, but I've met lots of nice people there
    Awesome. You know you are combative when you look at face the jury as a dating site.

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    I went to that site out of curiosity and noticed, under the category "Looking for", that they list "Cupping (Suctioning of the skin)" as sex play. This is interesting because my partner and I do this cupping thing once a week, as massage & chinese medicine purposes (and well, it does feel good). We almost always have circular bruises on our backs. I just never thought it would be a category of sex play! Amazing! Anyways, just commenting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmeliaG
    Awesome. You know you are combative when you look at face the jury as a dating site.
    I think it was ment to be a dating site.. People are to blame that it became some sort of catwalk and showcase for inbred fucktards. Nonetheless, it's always fun to browse their archives. I do that when I'm pissed and looking at some profiles always cheers me up. I used to have a column on my old site about ftj morons..
    http://gyuo.org/pimp/?content=ftj-spotlight
    most of those profiles are probably deleted yet

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    Quote Originally Posted by gonesavage
    I went to that site out of curiosity and noticed, under the category "Looking for", that they list "Cupping (Suctioning of the skin)" as sex play. This is interesting because my partner and I do this cupping thing once a week, as massage & chinese medicine purposes (and well, it does feel good). We almost always have circular bruises on our backs. I just never thought it would be a category of sex play! Amazing! Anyways, just commenting.
    Heh.. "No, that's no cupping marks. I'm having sex with an octopus"

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    Quote Originally Posted by postcoital
    Heh.. "No, that's no cupping marks. I'm having sex with an octopus"
    *laughs* We pretend that he's Doc Ock and I'm Octopussy.

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    I left that site for now, but for some reason, the guys hit on me, and the girls ignore me when I was at that site.. That is like High School all over again...

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    Quote Originally Posted by BrightStar
    I left that site for now, but for some reason, the guys hit on me, and the girls ignore me when I was at that site.. That is like High School all over again...
    Did you list men seeking men in your profile?

    I had a close friend in college who had guys hit on him all the time and he was endlessly puzzled by it. We went to see The Boys in the Band together and afterwards he was like ya know I think I might be gay. At the time, it seemed unlikely, but, damn, he was five billion times happier once he started dating guys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmeliaG
    Did you list men seeking men in your profile?

    I had a close friend in college who had guys hit on him all the time and he was endlessly puzzled by it. We went to see The Boys in the Band together and afterwards he was like ya know I think I might be gay. At the time, it seemed unlikely, but, damn, he was five billion times happier once he started dating guys.
    Nope, I had selected where I was seeking women, but the guys were hitting on me even so.

    Even though I am straight, I would possibly consider stuff with a guy in some cases, but that would be very unlikely.

    Not to mention that in either case, I find Males Disgusting, Very Repulsive, and many other similar descriptions like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BrightStar

    Not to mention that in either case, I find Males Disgusting, Very Repulsive, and many other similar descriptions like that.

    Bah! That wasnt expressed the way I meant it, and instead came across as rude and other stuff.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BrightStar

    Not to mention that in either case, I find Males Disgusting, Very Repulsive, and many other similar descriptions like that.
    I apologize for that comment, and take back that I said it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BrightStar
    ...the guys hit on me, and the girls ignore me when I was at that site..
    Maybe it's a sign?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tequila Zaire
    Maybe it's a sign?
    Hmmm....Possibly.....Maybe.....NO!

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    Out of curiosity, How long do you have to have been dating a guy or Girl before you can call them them your boyfriend or your Girl friend?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BrightStar
    Out of curiosity, How long do you have to have been dating a guy or Girl before you can call them them your boyfriend or your Girl friend?
    I think if you have gone on a few dates and have every expectation of continuing to date them from time to time the person can be a girlfriend or boyfriend, but you would not say my girlfriend or my boyfriend, unless it was a more formal thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmeliaG
    I think if you have gone on a few dates and have every expectation of continuing to date them from time to time the person can be a girlfriend or boyfriend, but you would not say my girlfriend or my boyfriend, unless it was a more formal thing.
    What if you had simply gone on a few dates, but didnt have a deep relationship with them? I would assume not, but there could be exceptions?

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    Default Re: Dating site for Brightstar and others

    ahh the age old question.
    i always love the moment when someone actually asks, "is this you girlfriend" and you just look at each other and think thats a damn good question.

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    For me it's always been that I wasn't serious about the person until I've been dating them, and only them, on a consistent basis for at least two months. You've gotta know if you really like them enough to keep dating them. People come and go for different reasons. Usually a boyfriend happens to me when the person I've been dating for a while introduces me as their girlfriend. If I have a problem with it, I'll talk about it. If not, I guess I'm a girlfriend. But I've never met an adult who worried about whether someone's a girl/boyfriend. It'll happen when it happens.

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    No what's really bad is when you're out on a date and the host at the resturaund asks "where would you boys like to sit tonight?" and then stuffs you in a corner and forgets about you for nearly an hour...
    Rob looked at me and asked, "Well, are you my boyfriend?" And for a minute ther I kinda stuttered...
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    Dating's always been a problem for me, I never stayed in a place longer than 4 years until now (I've been here 6). And also the type of people I like, my family would fucking kill me, every time I bring up the word "tattoo" within 50 feet of my mom, her response is "God says no"........ and god forbid if I date someone that's not a virgin. I swear, when I graduate and get the fuck out of here, she's not meeting my girlfriend till she's my wife. Although for my mom's benefit, her dad pretty much mindfucked her, she's at his beck and call for quite a few reasons........ like buying the house my mom lives in now, and the car she drives...... so I understand why she takes it out on me but I hate it...........

    anyways back to the subject, thanks for posting the site Amelia.......... I'll check it out......... and yours' too postcoital.

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    If I ever get away from my father and grandmother, Im not talking to them Ever again, unless required to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rayvanfire
    I had suggested that site before in the erotica type of forum.

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