you've probably heard the old addage or said it to someone either right after a bad break up or after years of not dating inspired depression:
"there's somebody out there for you."
but seriously, is there really someone out there for everyone?
relationships take work even on most of the "love at first site" relationships
and there are some who would prefer to spend their lifes content
'playing the field" on both teams going from one meaningless well aside from sex it would be meaningless relationship fling after another.
and although i'd love to imagine meeting mister or misses right someday-probably misses but who knows-the fact of the matter is there is also a very rude reality to the matter that maybe there isnt someone out there looking for me.
not to sound depressing and trust me, im not depressed over it. being single is great and i dont plan on being in a relationship with anyone until after i've gotten what i need to do taken care of but i've grown to believe a few of the old sayings we tell people are simply sayings we say to cheer people up because noone wants to be around someone freaking out over being lonely or crying and that in actuality there may not be someone out there for eveyrone, there arent enough fish in the sea and not every ugly duckling grows up to be a beautiful swan.
i think some people probably are meant to be alone in the bedroom maybe alone altogether. it's nott hat it's a bad thing, jus tthat's how things are meant to be.
what do you think?
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