
Originally Posted by
ForrestBlack
See, here is where I might disagree. Giving is very rarely done, in reality, with no expectation of any sort of return. People like to think of it that way, but often times these 'giving' people get pissy if things don't go according to whatever plan they had in mind. They did expect some value in return, but often times they are either hiding their intentions or they are in denial. There is nothing wrong with being giving, but it is very rarely a one way street. If giving is it's own reward, there is still that reward you are looking to get in return.It can take the form of cultural stature, good will you expect in return some day, tax breaks, or maybe you just needed to see someone smile that day to feel better about yourself. Those are not intrinsically bad motivations, but it is important to recognize that there is a desire for return.
I would tend to agree that there really is no pure "altruism". In terms of "doing good", I tend to think of it in almost karmic terms. The mistake is when people confuse "doing good" with "being good", almost inevitably they will be expecting tangible results for their "charity". I'll give money to a homeless person or a cause, but I am always careful not to equate that with "being good" and thus entitled.
And no, I don't think communism works. Somebody always wants more. Sometimes out of greed. Sometimes out of a distorted view of their own needs. But somebody will be the winner and somebody will be the loser. Some people work harder than others as well. The world we live in is not equality based, and there is not really more than enough of anything to go around. So, people who create, or are in some other position to provide, can choose to barter or trade with others for what they want. They can even provide for the destitute in order to improve the quality of their own lives. But nothing comes from nothing.
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