My friends and i have been struggling as a band for quite some time now. Yesterday there was a large-scale flip-out, and it got pretty scarey. My best friend had an unprovoked moment of hostility, throwing a drumstick at my other friend.
I gather that the source of his frustration was our lack of cohesion, but this is because of my toss-happy buds unwillingness to alter what he is doing to better fit the sound we are creating. Not only that, he expects us to just pick instruments up and start making noise around his, magically transforming it into music. unfortunately, that does not happen, but it would be defeating the purpose to boot him from the band. What should I do, do you think? I really value music, and have been really energetic about this whole endeavor, so I would hate t osee it end like this.
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