There are certain topics which old time etiquette manuals would suggest one not discuss. Personally I think not being able to talk about anything important is an unnecessary obstacle to figuring out how you feel about complex and difficult issues.
I want to foster the open exchange of varied viewpoints here. I don't think I know it all, so I like to hear what other people think. Even other people I do not agree with.
The thing about freedom of speech is that it means sometimes you are going to hear an opinion you do not agree with. But most places on the web you have to express the same opinions as everyone else in the digital room or you are totally ostracized. I think that is no way to live and no way to treat one's fellow man.
I know that this means sometimes I will hear someone say they favor the UK approach to firearms. I believe the US fought a revolution to not have to do it the UK way. But I'm not going to freak out and call someone names if they express concerns about firearm availability in America. It is a tough issue. A complicated issue. I have an opinion about it. A much more complex one than I've outlined here and I think it is correct. But I'm still open to hearing what other people have to say.
I'm not going to get enraged because I hear a viewpoint which is not identical to my own. Not everyone thinks what I think or how I think and I am aware of this and would probably be bored if everyone did think exactly as I do. I believe that sometimes I can change someone else's mind on something important if I express myself to them.
I expect people here to be willing to listen to other people's opinions and ideas. This does not mean necessarily agree or get your mind changed in any way. You can even make posts which express vehement disagreement. But please no name-calling. Even if you are screaming, "idiot, idiot, idiot" at your computer screen when you read a post, please explain your position or concern in your response instead of typing something rude. You are more likely to make your point if you just say what you mean than if you jump to conclusions about someone else and call them names.
Not every post needs to be about a hot button issue either though. I am also quite happy to talk about the new Nine Inch Nails or Sin City or Pixie Stix.
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