What makes a person irresistible to you?

[Mirren]

Is it a person with a great sense of humor that drives you wild? A beautiful smile? Soulful eyes? An understanding and sentimental type? For me, I would have to say a man who is on my level emotionally. They need to be able to be realistic and deal with the shit life hands us. Not whiny, rather being able to use his words to express his angst and frustrations. A great lover and passionate about his entire being.

[keiko]

He has to be Rob. The only man on the planet that I could ever find myself caring for. he's sexy, silly, a great lover, passionate, smart, and a Geek, just like me. oh yeah and we've lived together for four years and no's died yet... a sure sign that he's the one...
K

[memorydream]

For a guy - it's someone who is a lot like me. I like 'em devlish, handsome and risk-takers. Not bad boys, but "back room dealers!" For a girl, she has to be extremely intelligent, someone I can talk to a lot. I respect intelligence and it's the number one quality I go for. I can appreciate a girl who tells me the Beatles suck, but it's hot when she can intelligently explain why. (That is not to say I hate the Beatles, but I just came from the "How Punk Are You" page, so it's natural.)

[-=Asmodeus=-]

I want my women to be open with me...Hide nothing and be honest...A good sense of humor is a must I like to joke with everyone I know...She has to be open to new experiances and willing to try something new in their lives...She needs to take good care of herself (hair Nails Etc...) To me a woman who does that has a lot of self-respect and I find that admirable....Above all she must be able to handle the truth about anything she may ask me...I am always truthful...I have no skeletons in my closet and nothing in my past or present will be a mystery if she only asks about it...

I can think of more but my fingers are sore from work

[Genesis]

Confidence.
The most attractive quality in a person is confidence. I have dated the most wide range of men due to that too... never really the "pretty" boys either. I've alwasy fallen for a person for what they are and not what they have.
I also love bald heads, tats, piercings, female breasts, pale skin, full lips and a great ass.

[Szandora]

Confidence.
The most attractive quality in a person is confidence. I have dated the most wide range of men due to that too... never really the "pretty" boys either. I've alwasy fallen for a person for what they are and not what they have.
I also love bald heads, tats, piercings, female breasts, pale skin, full lips and a great ass.

I agree... totally.

[hewhoisagod]

Women that can think for themselves and that can have a conversation that doesn't involve how their hair is not acting the way they want it to. Or who do their boyfriend's homework (I actually have met people like that) if you can't respect yourself then I can't respect you. Which hits me hard because I have major inferiority issues. Probably have dysthimia too.

This isn't something I find irresistable, quite the opposite actually, but what I see here at my school are a lot of women who are going to college not to possibly get a career, but to find a husband, most of the people I know have just given them the nickname of "Dumb Bitches" I hate Dumb Bitches.

[gonesavage]

intelligence
confidence
great sense of wacky humor
physical fitness

[KilLAtomiK]

i like women with a sense of humor and a good personality someone i can actualy stand being with

[graecona]

someone who has sense....

[keiko]

Women that can think for themselves and that can have a conversation that doesn't involve how their hair is not acting the way they want it to. Or who do their boyfriend's homework (I actually have met people like that) if you can't respect yourself then I can't respect you. Which hits me hard because I have major inferiority issues. Probably have dysthimia too.

This isn't something I find irresistable, quite the opposite actually, but what I see here at my school are a lot of women who are going to college not to possibly get a career, but to find a husband, most of the people I know have just given them the nickname of "Dumb Bitches" I hate Dumb Bitches.

Halleluja!

[Histrionica]

I have to agree with the poster who named confidence. Someone who is hungry for knowledge and experiences is also very attractive. Someone not afraid to search for truth, ask a lot of questions, someone who isn't afraid of being wrong or even occasionally looking like a complete dumbass.

If you add on tall and skinny with BDSM experience, then it's pretty much game over for this girly.



~Histrionica~