My partners and I are polyfidelitious, which means we have more than one partner, but it's a closed circle. We are fluid bonded, and don't have sex with others. We don't all have sex with all of the people involved, but it's not monogamy.
I think polyamory can be sort of sexual orientation. I have always been more comfortable in those type of situations, and now I prefer them. I also remember thinking things when I was younger like that I wouldn't break up my marriage over one infidelity, and that I didn't understand why you couldn't love more than one person at a time.
Reading "The Ethical Slut" cleared up a lot for me.
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