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    Default Does someone knowing make it not cheating?

    If you tell your girlfriend you are going to fool around with other people, is it still cheating?

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    Default Re: Does someone knowing make it not cheating?

    haha, nah thats not cheating, cuz she knows!

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    Default Re: Does someone knowing make it not cheating?

    You'd want to be sure she was ok with it first. Also, a lot of times people will say they are but aren't. Your call.

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    Default Re: Does someone knowing make it not cheating?

    not sure if it is still cheating but if she hates it the screaming might be the same

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    Someone "knowing" about the infidelity makes it more of an open relationship in my eyes. Whether the person who isn't having outside relations is also demonstrating this behavior or not isn't necessarily the point, that's what they are involved in.Why people continue to stay with an unfaithful man/woman is beyond me but at the same time it isn't my problem or my business.I don't put up with that type of arrangement. I suppose it has something to do with low self-esteem?? Many people are just drawn to fuckups. Shit Magnets as my friend Jim says.

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    Default Re: Does someone knowing make it not cheating?

    Cheating = Lying

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    Default Re: Does someone knowing make it not cheating?

    its cheating if she tells you not to.

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    Default Re: Does someone knowing make it not cheating?

    right, the "cheat" isn't neccesarily the act of going behind someone's back, it's the fact that you are commited to a monogamous relationship, and then you break that agreement with your partner.

    now if you always said that your intentions were to possibley see other people, and that's the arangement of your relationship, then you're not going against your intentions and misleading your partner, and it's not cheating.

    if you said that, but your partner didn't feel the same way, then it's still not cheating, but it's also a pretty pointless relationshop and you should question why you want to be involved with someone that isn't in it for the same reasons you are.

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    Default Re: Does someone knowing make it not cheating?

    actually its very easy to ask if its ok to do
    rather than leave her to find out on her own

    but some people are very against it
    my current fiance said when we started going out that she wanted a monogonous relationship, so i've never asked because i know that she would say no

    if wshe is a relaxed sort of person she might agree or at least let you have a threesome
    but if she anal like my fiance then you've got buckleys chance
    aproach it easy and find out how she feels about your relationship and being true to only each other it might pay to be cautious

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    You have to be careful. Set definate rules about what's allowed. Even if she says it's ok (maybe she's only saying it because you want it), make sure you are both either secure in your relationship, or just together for fun so it doesn't matter.

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    Default Re: Does someone knowing make it not cheating?

    Quote Originally Posted by vulfgrl
    You have to be careful. Set definate rules about what's allowed. Even if she says it's ok (maybe she's only saying it because you want it), make sure you are both either secure in your relationship, or just together for fun so it doesn't matter.


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    Whatever you both agree to without coercion is acceptable. Everyone has to determine the parameters of their relationships by themselves.

    That said, most people do not have their jealousy sufficiently under control to handle mutually open relationships.

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