So here's a backwards scenario....
I have a friend who describes his pursuit of a mate in this manner...
How can you have sex with someone whenyou have not kissed them?
How an you kiss someone when you have not snuggled with them?
How can you snuggle with someone before you get to know them?
How can you get to know someone before you talk to them?
How can you talk to them before you have their number?
So where as I go along the route of sex and THEN getting to know someone, this person takes the opposite route.
How about you guys?
Do you like to do the getting to know first of second? Why?
I like to do the getting to know second for the following (off the top of my head) reasons?
**Sometimes if you really like someone and the chemistry is missing sexually it can be a huge disappointment, better to know right off the bat!! (If someone's great in bed and we don't get along mentally for some reason I am not as let down :-))
**I am impatient and I like to be gratified sexually right away!!!
**I am not old fashioned, and usually not looking for a relationship, so why wait to have sex when that implies that it's 'going somewhere'? I'd rather just have sex with people and if something more clicks pursue it, but it's not entirely necessary for me to care about someone in a lasting way if I am gonna sleep with them.....
I'm sure I have a ton more reasons but those were at the top of my head....
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