I've heard a few but they mostly seem to rely on a basic prejudice against homosexuality, scaremongering with predictions of societal doom or outright fantasy (and I suspect some of their personal fantasies are not quite as wholesome as they are portraying themselves to be... well i hope not for their sakes). Not a lot of good arguments are forthcoming from that side of the debate it seems which tends to suggest that there aren't too many probably (seeing as anti same-sex marriage folk are not short on effort trying to make them up or publishing material).
For instance on
http://www.nogaymarriage.com the attempts are frankly laughable (to me anyway as I'm sometimes a little removed from the core interest groups even though the atmosphere in this town is reasonably tolerant of the pro same-sex side overall I think) and range from "it will lead to a rise in polygamy" (fantasy) to severe "impact on social security payments" (maybe but that's prejudice implying some people should get them and some not) to "divorces will be obtained instantly" (so?). I don't care if I'm not quoting exactly... I just don't.
There is a satirical list from the university of Florida
http://grove.ufl.edu/~ggsa/gaymarriage.html giving 12 reasons why same-sex marriages shouldn't occur (actually debunking them at the same time)... worth a quick look... for instance reason number one is "Homosexuality is not natural, much like
eyeglasses, polyester, and birth control are not natural. ". As far as I know it occurs pretty naturally in the natural world anyway... even leaving humans out of the argument.
yes well I'm no expert but it seems that it depends on where you are. In the UK a fella can rush off and "civil partnership" Elton John and expect the same rights as a "marriage" of any other sort (if you wanted to that is... the cad got married to a girl out here in Australia years ago and dumped her almost immediately treating it as a big joke... pity she wasn't in on it). In some countries it seems they allow the "union" but that's it pretty much it... you don't get any of the traditional rights of married couples (or de-facto couples which are just as recognised as married here in Aus). Then again you could do worse... don't bring it up in the Carribean or much of Africa if you want to remain uninjured.
Perhaps a benefit of calling it a "civil union" rather than a "marriage" is that it allows marriages to remain the province of "religion" completely seperate to the idea of a "union"... something like what bohoki said previously. Then again maybe you could wear a T-shirt saying "Marry them all... let god sort them out".
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