So: The changes in weather always tend to cause me some fairly painful ear infections. A female "friend" had wanted to take me to a play and then karaoke. I messaged the specifics of how it would be slightly different. I occasionally will need help with balance and cannot hear well. She acted all caring and said it was ok.
I took a shower. It takes me additional time to get ready when I'm not 100%. She arrives at 10 til 8. I get out within 10 minutes. We arrive at the show at about 8:05. It started at 8.
Suddenly: We had to be there 8. Ok. I went through effort of getting ready. A few drinks tends to quell the pain. Karaoke starts in an hour.
I am met with anger, Very subtle. "I told my friends to go this show" "I'm going home". I was essentially blamed for being ill when I told her it was not going to be the most fluid of nights. The disrespect and inconsideration I felt was stunning.
Ever have this happen? I tend to wonder wtf is wrong with some people.
On a happy note: I received a message from a really great female friend. We're gonna go to The Raveonettes and chill tomorrow. She is a kindred spirit and never judges me for my quirks.
Why do people act this way? I can be harsh when I feel fucked with. If you know someone is ill .... you agree to accomodate them ... I think it's only proper that you show some fucking respect if things aren't perfect.
Fuck'n Humans (well most anyways)
I'm happy now that I got the message though Karma.
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