Would you rather date a freaky looking person who was normal on the inside or a normal person who was freaky on the inside?
Now by normal on the inside I mean: conventional ways of thinking, such as marriage and a family, monogamy, believes in the formula of life (grow up, go to college, wed, 2.5 kids and a dog). Believes that 'that's just the way things are'.
By freaky on the inside I mean goes against the norm of society, breaks the rules (but not necessarily in an irresponsible way), believes more in the adventure of life, taking chances.
I think I'd go fo the normal on the outside type of person if I had to choose. I have dated a lot of spooky looking guys who were not compatible with me other than in our aesthetic and musical preferences. I used to think we had all been drawn to this scene by rebellion of some sort, and an open mind, but in recent years I have started to change my mind. It seems there are actually a lot of super closed minded people in our scene, strangely enough. How you can wear Halloween spiders glued to your face and judge others is beyond me, but it does happen. So although I'd REALLY like to have a spooky hot death rocker with an amazing open mind and rebellious roots, I'd rather have a normal guy with the right mind than a death rocker with a closed one.....
How about you all???
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