How do you tell when they like you, are flirting, or just being polite and/or friendly?**
How do you tell when they like you, are flirting, or just being polite and/or friendly?**
You ask them.
Tried that, almost wound up in jail. **Originally Posted by TheDeathKnight
You ask them as non-creepily as possible? Really, I think you wait until they make the first move for anything more than friendly interaction, if you are worried that you don't have a good enough sense of boundaries.
Well, there wasnt anything creepy about they way I asked, but thats another story completely, even if it is related. **Originally Posted by AmeliaG
I can usually tell when they start unlacing my leather pants. I've got one pair in particular I just can't lose in.
yeah, see, that's kina creepy. haha
Originally Posted by Morning Glory
Ok, joking aside, you can usually tell when someone likes you, because they will make sexual innuendos, flirt, touch a bit more than normal, etc... You will start to get a clear idea that maybe there is more interest than just a friendly one. So once you actually have those signs, I will usually come right out and ask them. But in a cool way. You have to be ready to accept that they may say that it is a misunderstanding. And if so, you have to be *totally* cool about it, and just say that you were just wondering, because the other person seemed to be flirting a lot, etc. As long as you do it in a very casual way, they will probably not get offended, or run off.
doing it casual and light is key to it not being creepyOriginally Posted by TheDeathKnight
yeah, fuck it, I just do it straight up. if I like somone I'll tell them, frankly, hey I like you. honestly, it doesn't really work that well, but I don't think that it's my approach that is at fault. haha
when you spot them looking at you from across the room.
When they punch you.
sometimes they slap you in the face an run away giglingOriginally Posted by Tequila Zaire
you can tell they like you when they chain you up in their closet.
you can tell they really like you when they let you out again.
You can tell? Damn.Originally Posted by BrightStar
I tend to scare people off. It's not intentional, but I can't exactly help it looking how I do. When people actually get to know me then they actually like me. But I usually end up as a friend, nothing really happens.
When they're touching your crotch is a nice sign. jkOriginally Posted by BrightStar
Seriously? It's pretty easy to tell..
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