I work at a gas station. One of the girls I work with, who just turned assistant manager, has been cheating on her fiance for over a year now. I know it, and so does my other friend at work, who's a manager. Her fiance is a really nice guy who has NO CLUE she's doing this to him; it's depressing. And to add insult to injury, the guy she's cheating on him with hangs around at our work a lot and always comes to visit her.
And, to add even more insult to injury, this girl just became pregnant a few months ago. Now, her fiance works off-shore so he's gone for weeks at a time, and she has already said it's pretty much impossible it's his. At first, she and the other guy agreed to keep their mouths shut and just hope the kid looked like her fiance. Now, apparently, she's going to get an abortion. I feel this is the best choice, since I think it's extremely cruel to make a guy raise a kid when he doesn't even know it's not his to begin with.
It's gotten to the point of making me sick, though. I think it's extremely wrong to treat someone, anyone, that way, let alone the person you supposedly love and are going to marry. Her fiance's cousin is our main manager. For months now, I've been holding off on telling him, but I feel ethically bound to do so. My fiance brought up a good point today when we were discussing it, saying it's still extremely cruel to make a guy think he has a kid and then to lie and say she lost the baby, essentially meaning he lost his kid. (She's intending on saying she miscarried.)
I just don't know WTF to do. Part of me wants, feels a need almost, to tell my boss what's going on (since I don't know her fiance personally but I see his cousin every day). The other part, however, feels it's none of my business. But really, isn't it wrong not to say anything? I mean, not only has she been cheating on this guy and lying to him over and over again for a year, but now she's led him on to believe he's having a baby with her. She has never shown an ounce of guilt this entire time either.
And on the purely selfish side, I don't want to say anything YET because it may affect my job. My boss and I are on really great terms, but who would react NICELY to hearing something like this? The three of them all live together and are pretty close. However, I am moving and transferring to another job in a few months, so I figure if I do ever say anything, I'll tell him after I've already moved so I have job security.
The only reason I'm posting this here is that she knows me on LJ and ******* and she has no idea I even know she's cheating on him or that I plan on saying something about it. (Her friend, the other female manager, told me.) And yes, I realize my workplace sounds like a fucking soap opera. It kind of is, though.
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