So there are all these mixed opinions about whether couples should get back together after a breakup. I am sure all of us have done it (I think I have done it about 20 times). I have mixed feelings on the topic myself.
I have only once gotten back together with someone and had it be successful. Well, not successful in the permanent sense but it lasted for a while afterwards and their was no resentment harbored about the temporary separation.
Then there are all the other times, which have all been unsuccessful. Both parties remain bitter about all the mean things that were said, and are always on guard, and always awaiting the next breakup. Or they are hung uo on the fact that "while we were broken up you fucked WHO?!?!?!" or some such bullshit.
Many people would say that once it is over it is OVER. But what if a great length of time passes and you still have strong feelings for the person? Do you guys think it is OK to try again?
I think it depends on the reason for the breakup. If the relationship was mostly good but there was a big fight over nothing and that resulted in the breakup, then it is likely that getting back together might work, because the couple got along 99% of the time. But if they were onee of those couples who bickered and bickered and fought all the time and the breakup happpened beccause one or both were tired of it, then chances are they won't get along the second time either, even if they make a pact to "try harder".
OK tell me what you think :-)
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