Have you...

[Mirren]

ever tried to change for someone else or found yourself starting to? One of my friends is starting to do that and I am trying to figure out why. She isn't weak minded, she has always pretty much done what she wanted all of her life but this one person has her mesmerized. I think If I say anything it would just make her feel anger and maybe that I don't understand. I don't see how a man can make you change... a partner should accentuate you, not want you to be his double. I have to have my identity. What you see is what you get. I suppose she will learn.

[Toe Cutter]

Your friend must be open and willing to the change because I don't think it's possible to really change anybody without change from within.

[Mirren]

Your friend must be open and willing to the change because I don't think it's possible to really change anybody without change from within.

She is going to have to be the one to change and be willing to settle if she wants to keep this guy for life. She is doing that and losing sense of herself . Sometimes, you can just watch the accident not prevent it.

[Toe Cutter]

That's a shame. You might as well say something then if you think her poor choices are going to drive a wedge between the two of you anyways. She might need to hear it.