Direspectful/moronic friends

[Pull~My~Hair]

SO I have this friend, shes a nice person , she has little boy kadens age. But jesus christ she has NO common sense at all. And she does things that put her life and her sons in danger.

Lastnight she said she was bringing a friend over , which was fine. So this guy comes up and sits down and about 45 seconds later says, wanna see my new pistol, and he pulls out a dessert eagle wrapped in a tshirt out of his pants..my heart sank, with my past I know (just as well as anyone should) that that gun and the way he was carrying was simply used to kill people, its not a gun you use for hunting and its not for protection, buy some fucking mace. Plus Bryan and I thought it was totally disrespectful to bring a gun in someones house, ecspecially when yOu dont know them, plus her baby was sitting right there. Then she handled it, Im like ....smart fingerprints...oi
So lastnight I made a new rule, no more people in my house, we have like 10 computers, all the gaming stations, a 65inch tv, and I just dont trust all of these sleazey people she knows. Most importantly I have a baby to think about.
Am I paranoid? would this have totally freaked you out too? Whats the best way to deal with friends like this?

[LoraLie]

I would have been freaked out. O.O
But then again, I am a paranoid fuck. But in some situations, its better to be safe than sorry.

There are a lot of fucktards in the world. & I think it was rude to bring a gun into someone's house.

I have a friend like that too. So oi . . . . my friend is really oblivious & when she does stupid things, only later does she see how stupid they are. So I usually just tell her in the nicest way possible when she is doing something brainless.
Some people you just gotta be to the point with.

[Buster Friendly]

yeeeaah, that'd do it for me too.

i would have told dude to put the gun away.

no more stupid people.

ever.

[GnArKiLL]

shit with all that stuff you have you shouldnt let anyone you dont know in your house period. I had this friend who always let people come in and out of her apartment, next thing she knew everything was gone!

[keiko]

yeah that's usually the point i stop talking to people. i ask everyone to leave and to never come back. ever. I tell the chick that she's not to bring her frineds around my place ever again and she'll be lucky if i let her ass back on my couch. Endager me and mine, bitch, you're gone. end of story. I'll explain very politely the first time that this was a fucked up thing and she shouldn;t be hanging out with this fucker but if she's gonna keep hanging out with this disaster looking for a place to happen, she's cut off. it'll hurt me to do it, because i care about all my friends, but i'd rather handle that pain than the worst case scenario.

K

[Pull~My~Hair]

thank you guys! She told me today how paranoid I was and how I overreacted and blah blah...I dont think I did at all..

[mmmcherry]

yeah you have every right to be fucking paranoid and freaked out if someone brings a fucking GUN into your house...
i totally agree with keiko on this one... id just be like... no fuck that.
you didnt overreact at all... i dont even think throwing him off your balcony would be overreacting hehe...

[Buster Friendly]

yeah, that'd be it for that fuckin' bitch as far as i'm concerned. dump her like a bad meal.

[LoraLie]

She told me today how paranoid I was and how I overreacted and blah blah...I dont think I did at all..

wow, what a dumb cunt.
maybe she'll figure it out when she finds her kids blood all over her walls. : /
sad thought, but she's asking for trouble if she's that careless

[Pull~My~Hair]

oh thank you you guys!
Its hard because Bryan is friends with her bf (who happens to be my ex lol) and she is really like the only friend I have..I just thought you were suppossed to like your friends lol
Shes nice , but oh so stupid...shs the type of person that the cops would catch doing a drung deal inside a grocery store or something lol. Shes oblivious. And shes a super control freak with her bf because he cheats on her all of the time, and so if we want to hang out with him, shes there...oi
I wish I could make her smart

[Mr Karl]

most of my friends don't even know where I live

[mmmcherry]

ugh i wouldnt let them in my house anymore at least... not with friends anyways. grr.

[vincentb_]

Yeah she's definitly crazy